When
Someone Important is starting to make you an option, it is a right time to
leave.
Well, if we talked
about what is important in life, it could be more than one in this mother earth. But if you said someone
important in your life the number could decrease into just a few people. The word
‘important’ could have different means
for anyone. It depends on theirself what make she/he is important in their
life. But I’m pretty sure that they recognize the important person has affect
their life in many different way. Usually, people didn’t want to life in
distance with ‘the important’ person. Because
they one way or another dependant to them, and it was fact. It was not a big
deal, cause basiclly humans are dependant creature. Human in fact not only couldn’t live without other living things but
also any other object.
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But, How if the
important person hurt us ? They treat us like we are nothing, or worse.
It hurt isn’t.
It hurt so much. It definitely
tore you a apart.
Sometimes people pretend to look stronger in
front of the others when actualy they’re dying inside. Of course we didn’t want
anyone know that we could not live without ‘the important’
This rule also works
to that important person.
But could you ever
think that maybe we gave that important person an over-valued. Maybe they are
not that important. After all this time
we gave our effort, our intention and our time to the wrong person. It sucks !
But this is happened all
the time, there were a lot of people who trapped in this situation over and
over again.
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| photo taken in Teluk Penyu Cilacap |
Well, I don’t even
know what is right things in order to
avoid me from this.
Maybe, we have to
think again about ourself. How good we are, and how valuable we are before we
give anyone our effort and our intention. Secondly we have to think twice
before we did that. Is he/she are treat me as good as I treat them ? Do they
think that we are as valuable as they are ? Did she/he is the one who I can hang on ?
If not just pass it,
your time and effort are not worth for them. It may sound selfish but it isn’t,
knowing yourself to not giving the wrong people all of your effort is not
selfish. It’s Bravery, Respect
yourselft to walk a way from anything that no longer serves you, grows you or makes
you happy.
Cause once again, You’ll
en up really disappionted if you think people will do for you as you do for
them. Not everyone has the same heart as
you.
