Knowing Your Time

When Someone Important is starting to make you an option, it is a right time to leave.

Well, if we talked about what is important in life, it could be more than one  in this mother earth. But if you said someone important in your life the number could decrease into just a few people. The word  ‘important’ could have different means for anyone. It depends on theirself what make she/he is important in their life. But I’m pretty sure that they recognize the important person has affect their life in many different way. Usually, people didn’t want to life in distance with  ‘the important’ person. Because they one way or another dependant to them, and it was fact. It was not a big deal, cause basiclly humans are dependant creature. Human in fact not only  couldn’t live without other living things but also any other object.

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But, How if the important person hurt us ? They treat us like we are nothing, or worse. 

It hurt isn’t.

It hurt so much. It definitely tore you a apart.

 Sometimes people pretend to look stronger in front of the others when actualy they’re dying inside. Of course we didn’t want anyone know that we could not live without ‘the important’

This rule also works to that important person.

But could you ever think that maybe we gave that important person an over-valued. Maybe they are not that important.  After all this time we gave our effort, our intention and our time to the wrong person. It sucks !

But this is happened all the time, there were a lot of people who trapped in this situation over and over again.

photo taken in Teluk Penyu Cilacap

Well, I don’t even know what is right  things in order to avoid me from this.

Maybe, we have to think again about ourself. How good we are, and how valuable we are before we give anyone our effort and our intention. Secondly we have to think twice before we did that. Is he/she are treat me as good as I treat them ? Do they think that we are as valuable as they are ?  Did she/he is the one who I can hang on ?

If not just pass it, your time and effort are not worth for them. It may sound selfish but it isn’t, knowing yourself to not giving the wrong people all of your effort is not selfish. It’s Bravery, Respect yourselft  to walk a way from anything  that no longer serves you, grows you or makes you happy.

Cause once again, You’ll en up really disappionted if you think people will do for you as you do for them. Not everyone has the same heart as you.